If you start out each week counting the seconds until Friday rolls around again ….. you might want to look at what you are doing that is sucking out the joy. Sometimes it is simple stuff, people trying to suck your joy, tasks that suck joy all day long or simply because you stayed up too late and making it through the day let alone the week seems like an impossible task.
I stayed up too late last night…. it sucked the joy right out of me. I may not make it… if you find my corpse sleeping under my desk. Just leave me… it is better for everyone that way.
Well… when you starting saying it’s warming up out there because it is now “only -26 o/c” you know you live somewhere too cold for humans. It makes it pretty easy to work and stay indoors. That means I really have no excuse… even though I can give you a million right off the top of my head for not doing more… it never seems to be enough somehow.
Today I heard some good advice on @garyvee … if you do not want to work on it all day… you haven’t picked the right thing. It is so true. There were so many times in my life growing up that I tried to fit a square peg in a triangle hole… it almost fit, but I knew it did not feel right. I kept plugging away only to leave whatever I thought “i should be doing” for something I actually wanted to do.
At the finish line the only thing that matters is “were you happy and did you make others happy?” If you think about that you might realize you do not have to change anything just because “should” told you to. Your happy is not the same as anyone else… that’s kinda the point.
What are the things you must do everyday to be happy? Figure that out and you win.
I am proud of my family. We have many firsts. Maybe this is what drives me to take advantage of the opportunities that I would not have had if my family didn’t decide to be the master of their lives. It is pretty humbling. Whenever I think ” I am tired, I should just give up… I can’t … I remember.. My grandpa was on the first black baseball team in Alberta, I have many relatives in this clip. It keeps me going whenever life gets dark.
the odds of us being born in the life we have now, here, in Canada are comparable to winning the lotto every week for a year. Yet, we are always looking at the next step before we enjoy the one we are on. I distinctly remember “If I could just do ______ insert any goal” and having achieved that goal I am already looking at the step ahead of me thinking ” Well, that step looks so nice, look at what that step has that this one doesn’t, maybe this step is not as good as I thought it was and I really should have thought more about the other one”. Then the cycle begins, the never ending hamster wheel to more. In the process we miss enjoying our kids grow up (if they could just be older) or are parents, our partners, our jobs… Funny thing, that monster is insatiable and no matter where you are, how much you achieve, how much money you have there will ALWAYS be someone who has more. There is no one winner in this race and you will not be declared “World Winner”.
When we slow down and think about what we need to be happy, we are often surprised by how much we really need. Television, magazines, the news tell you excess is better…. I am not a sheep, so I will vintage shop, not feed the hungry monster who makes us need and then pushes us to show everyone on every form of social media how we are winning.
For now, I am going to enjoy the step I am on thank you very much.